So, since four years ago, I have maintained a site of my own on a friend’s server. It’s great! I have photo albums, writing, a blog…tons of stuff on there! Buuuut, I have noticed…the postings have become far and few between over time. I don’t know if it’s the fact that I have to open up dreamweaver each time, limiting me to my own computer, or if it’s because each site update is so all-consuming that I find myself setting aside those six hours less and less. But in any case, it’s not happening! The last blog posting was waaaaay too long ago!
What I DO know for sure is that oftentimes, I find myself thinking, “Man, I would love to write about this!” or “I need to blog about this!” or “I need to record this!” and that is where a blog should come in handy. A convenient, easy-to-access, all-encompassing blog! I saw when friendster first jumped on the blog bandwagon and I must say, they’re doin’ a good job! Well-organized and quite comprehensive! I’m impressed and I’m gonna give it a shot!
root canal!
So, the dentist told me last year that I needed a root canal…I tried to put it off…mainly cuz it was supposed to run me like a few thousand dollars!!! Neways, last week, I was chewing on some gum, when I felt something crunchy in my mouth, and then I took my gum out and my filling was in it! I looked inside my mouth and realized that my tooth had a big piece missing! This is the part that was being filled by the filling…so I guess it was time to get that root canal!
My god, it was the most painful experience of my life!!! I was there, in the chair, as the dentist casually started preparing his instruments, humming along like he wasn’t just about to drill into the three nerves in my tooth! I scrunched down in my chair and cringed as soon as he started to get closer to my mouth. He had already injected two shots of novacaine into my mouth, but I still felt it, so I told him I needed more. He injected me two more times, I practically crushed the assistant’s hand after she kindly offered it and then he injected me again, into the nerve. I had to force myself to think of anything else in the world to try to get my mind off of the fact that I was getting all hell drilled outta my tooth! I was wondering, at one point, how in the world I had ever survived a tattoo! geesh! 45 minutes later, I was walking out of the office, realizing that I couldn’t feel the entire right side of my jaw! I couldn’t really talk right, my tongue felt like it was twice as big as normal, my lips wouldn’t match when I closed my mouth and I basically looked like I had had a stroke!!!
Now, I have to go back two more times to finish up the procedure! great!
dinner table history lessons
So, for some reason, every time I get together with my fam, we end up pigging out together and catching up, talking, etc. Inevitably, especially during big famiy get-togethers, the topic ends up settling around not just Chinese history, but OUR family’s chinese history. Well, Saturday night was no different, my mom told me about how during a famine in China, the families would exchange babies and actually eat the children! I was so disgusted by such an image and realized that I couldn’t even fathom such tragedy. I asked my mom why they didn’t just eat trees or something and she replied emphatically, “They did…they ate the trees, they ate the bark, they even ate the roots!!!” Well, I couldn’t compete with that, but was still amazed in a sad, incredibly sad, sad way.
holy thoughts
So, I got a card in the mail yesterday…from my mom! Who gets greeting cards from their own mothers?!?! I opened it and it was a card from mommy congratulating me on finding a church that I like! She wrote “Congratulations on finding your spiritual home! May God provide a spiritual partner in good fellowship.” Then she included a Bible verse:
Two are better than one, because the have a good return for their work. If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! -Ecclesiastes 4:9
When I told her on the phone that I had found a church, the first thing she said was Hallelujiah!!!” She’s really cute in that way. It all began last week, when, my friend Lydia introduced me to a church that I loooooooove! It’s called Journey and I’ve been inviting everyone ever since I visited! It’s a casual, contemporary church with short, sweet messages that really speak to you and Krispy Kreme doughnuts
at the end of the service! It’s so much fun! A few days after my visit, I received a welcome card from them with a $4 metrocard
inside, instructing me to “Enjoy the Journey.” I guess the card is for me to go and come back from church! so clever…i love it!
They gave out this book, The Case for Faith that I’m reading right now. It’s written by a journalist who decides to investigate the basis of faith and ends up building a real case for it! Lee Strobel interviews this guy, Templeton, who was a colleague of Billy Graham’s and at one point, parts ways with Graham because he begins to question the logic behind God and can’t bring himself to live as a Christian when he is racked with doubt. Strobel lists eight points which are huge objections in the belief of God.
Right now, the sermons are revolving around a relationship theme, beginning with resisting sexual temptation and ending with marriage. I was fortunate enough to come in during this and this past week, caught the message titled: Dating: I Wanna Hold Your Hand. Pastor Nelson debunked several myths that many Christians live by, showed a video to illustrate a point and comforted us with the fact that finding our mate is not a task that is upon us, it could never be. Instead, we are to simply concentrate on ourselves and God will take care of the rest. comforting, huh?
christmas…
The new year is right around the corner…it’s a time to really reflect on ourselves…make some hard-core judgement calls…and resolve to build upon ourselves for the bigger and better…in the new year. Why does it always seem like I’m in a struggle? Why have I not been able, still, to sit back and enjoy my life…truly just be content, since college? I think that I have a lot of “resolving” to do. There are fitness resolutions, financial resolutions, career resolutions, goodwill resolutions, accomplishment resolutions…everything from saving $250 / week to getting a six-pack to pampering myself regularly to managing my time more efficiently to becoming active in my community to reading more books to taking regular trips to cooking regularly to learning a new language to starting on a career path to taking voice lessons…has to be done…NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can’t dilly dally any longer. It’s pissing me off waaaay too much. I think that at this point in our lives…and I use the word “our” loosely to refer to those that are in a similar point in life such as myself…we’re not going to be livin’ large yet…so it’s gonna have to be a combination to living as comfortably as we can…and learning to be happy with that and accept it as a “transitional period.” I’ve always been a generally happy person. As hard as I am on myself, I also relish in the smaller pleasures in life and have a blast when I want to. Nevertheless, when it comes down to it, I am far from where I want to be and there’s no more time for BS’in anymore!
resolutions thus far:
-read “Girls just wanna have funds”
-read “The Rape of Nanking”
-save $250 every week
-exercise and eat strictly, but not to the point of torchure =P
-regular mani’s, pedi’s and such (hey, ya look good, ya feel good)
-take a weekend trip every month (ski trips, visiting friends, etc)
-community service
-cook at least once a week for myself and roommies
-get my journalism ish started, no matter in what capacity
-take a voice lesson a week ($50)
-bartend to support hobbies and fun stuff, so paycheck is untouched!
-volunteer at chinese school? (community service+language in one!)
The above are not listed in order of importance. I write purely on stream of consciousness and simply wanted to get this stuff down on paper…down somewhere where I could access it easily lest I ever have to remind myself!
tick tock….new year comin’
I’m just sittin’ here waitin’ for the cable guy to come so that I can FINALLY have some cable and internet and phone up in this piece! They’re supposed to come before 11am and then I have about 3 peoples comin’ to see the apartment. Keep your fingers crossed for me! Then, hopefully, before the day is over, I’ll get a chance to hit the gym, the tanning salon, the Turkish or Russian salon/bathhouse, the supermarket, the laundromat and make it back in time for Desperate Housewives! Think I can do all that in 6 hours? Well, actually, with Tivo, I can take my time! hehe. Oh, before I forget, here’s the rest of the story about that night when we all went out to Lobby and I had a crazy after-party story!
LOBBY STORY:
I said good-bye to val and unbeknownst to me, embarked on a whole new adventure! So, I go over to my $2 vans that take me across the Lincoln Tunnel into West New York and right to my corner. I have excatly $2.75, so I think to my self, “hmmmm, I can maybe get myself a little snack for 75 cents!” Not extremely unreasonable, right? So, I go over to the deli right next to the bus stop and am immediately drawn to this huge croissant. Can’t remember the last time I had a croissant. I pick it up and ask how much it is. The answer “$1.35″ told me to put the croissant down, quite reluctantly, I might add. My eyes are scanning the rest of the counter when suddenly, this either drunken or speech impeded man half drawls and half mumbles, “I’ll buy it for you if you want…it’s kinda weird that you asked how much it is.” I was so surprised by the fact that he was not only listening, but that he had such frankness in what he was saying! Of course, I didn’t refuse, but did offer to throw in my 75 cents that I had planned to use anyway. In any case, we paid for our stuff and he actually said, at the counter, “why don’t you get some butter on that…it’s free you know”!!! I was crackin’ up! We ended up taking different buses. whew! don’t know if I woulda been able to converse with him for too long! But I sat down with my croissant and was happy as could be!
Theeeeenn…..this guy and girl got on the bus. The guy started droolin’ over my croissant right away, so I peeled off half of it and handed it over to him. “Here,” I said. “I didn’t want all of it anyways…and some drunk guy bought it for me.” He was so pleasantly surprised and although refused such a big piece at first, eventually took it happily. So, as we sat there, munching on our croissants, we chatted for a bit, mostly about how long it would take the bus to start moving…so, we basically became van buddies for that moment in time. Several minutes later, the drunken/speech-impeded guy comes onto the bus and hands me a piece of paper. “Here, just for the hell of it,” he drawled. I took the paper cautiously, not knowing what to expect, and said thank you. I looked at the scrap paper, and scrawled on it were ten digits and the phrase, “just for the hell of it!” Hilarious! I handed the paper over to my van buddy and told him he could have it. He dialed and verified the phone number, then handed it back to me, saying, “It’s okay, I don’t go that way!”
Finally, the bus driver came and we were on our way home! I was playing on the computer for a minute and then started getting really sleepy. I nodded off several times and at about 10 streets from my house, was realllllly fighting the drooping eyelids. “C’mon, Jeanette, stay with me!” I kept yelling at myself in my head. I was dying! Of course, five minutes later, I open my eyes to unfamiliar streets outside. “What stop is this?” I ask frantically. The bus driver said 65th…(I live on 60th) and so I yelled, “Stop please!” What a mess! hehe! I get off, exasperated and weary and dreading the walk that seemed soooo long at that moment, especially taking into account the heels I had on that night. I sighed and looked down the boulevard. “I knew we shoulda woken her up,” the girl next to me whispered loudly. It was the guy and girl who were sitting next to me on the bus! She comforted me and explained apologetically that she had a feeling that they should have woken me earlier. I smiled understandingly and brushed it off. Nevertheless, that walk was looking mighty ominous.
Suddenly, the guy, (croissant eater) asked me where a store was nearby. I hadn’t the faintest idea, but offered to walk him partway…until I got to my house, of course! “Go, walk her home,” his cousin urged/scolded him. I was grateful to not have to walk alone, and then, at that moment, a cab pulled up, peddling rides. “Where you wanna go,” he said to us, his beady eyes shifting around. “How much is it to the nearest store,” my bus buddy asked. “How much you wanna pay?” the shady taxi driver asked. He was obviously off-duty and tryin’ to get some extra mula in before the clock was up. “Five bucks,” van buddy said, like a true bargainer. “Five bucks!” exclaimed the cab driver incredulously, like a true bargainer. “Alright, ten bucks, but then gimme one of those cigarettes,” said van buddy. With that, the deal was made and we hopped inside our new ride! Five streets and a cigarette later, I was safely on the corner of my street and giving directions to the cab driver to the nearest store so that van buddy could get a bag of chips! That’s some expensive chips! Anywhoo, I walked out and towards my home sweet home, shaking my head at the bizarre chain of events that had transpired within the past hour. Only in New York…only in NY!
who hates me?!?
Did you ever hear the saying that bad things happen in threes? I think I might have that saying beat. Well, here’s a quick rundown of the craziest bad luck you’ve probably ever heard of…
- license suspended (two times!)
- rear-ended…on the way back from church!
- car stolen …by landlord’s son…and recovered
- bike accident…with a taxi!
- purse stolen (containing ipod, ipaq, wallet and keys to home, office and car!)
I know that all these incidents sound COMPLETELY bizarre and melodramatic, but I seriously assure you that there is NO exagerration here. All of this has been happening to me during the past two months only! Can you believe it! The stories are long and there’s a lot of background, so I don’t even know if I can get into them.
I think that perhaps you should just know that my license, which was suspended for parking tickets, has been restored…although it cost me $100 each time to do so! My car did not suffer any serious damage from being rear-ended…and I couldn’t bank on that because I was actually also in the wrong for driving without a license at that moment!
My car was stolen by my punk landlord’s son who thinks it’s totally cool to break into someone’s home and take their keys to their car and then drive it to work! Is that incredulous or is that mind-blowing?!?! Some people are raised very strangely. But he ended up getting arrested…thanks to me, $1,200 bail and $200 later, has learned his lesson!
The bike accident is a result of biking in the city, which, obviously, I will NEVER partake in ever again! The taxi passenger opened his door in my face as soon as I was about to pass the cab. I crumpled to the ground, moaning and suffering from bruises, a gash behind my ear and a bruise on my rib area. I was craaaanky after that!
And my purse, sigh, that was a stupid move. My friend and I both put our bags down so that we could get down on the dance floor, and boom! next thing you know…no more purses!
I’m dealin’ with it, ya’ll and I’ll be A OK. Tough lessons learned…
-pay your tickets
-don’t drive without a license
-don’t lend your car to punk kids
-don’t bike in the city
-and don’t EVER let your purse out of your sight!
that’s me, gotta learn the hard way! What else? Well, time to do some job-searching. If you guys know anything suitable for an aspiring journalist, send it my way! ttyl! =)
just catchin’ up!
for those of you who didn’t know…including me! haha…this past wednesday, SEPTEMBER 22nd, marked the official International Very Good Looking Damn Smart Woman’s Day!!!
Fun motto to live by…
“Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand – strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming WOO HOO – What a Ride!”
Is that an awesome friggen’ quote or what? And that totally defines my friend simm, who sent the email…she’s just crazy and kooky and is all about the “woo hoo, what a ride!” deal. I enjoyed it!
I’ve officially decided what my next three electroni purchases will be…and I will document them here just to make it that much more real (and maybe to give y’all an idea…christmas is just around the corner! ahem! jk! anyways) no, but I will just document this because I love electronic toys and I get to write about whatever I want on here!
check it:
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TIVO = $99 |
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CASIO EX-S2 CAMERA = $179 |
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DELL INSPIRON NOTEBOOK = $1299 |
simm’s bday | family outing!
simm’s bday: why the heck simm simma decided to celebrate her twenty-(ahem) birthday in new hope, pennsylanvia is beeeeyond me! I was like, “what the heck!? do you want me to attend this thing or what? ya know what I mean? like help me out a little over here! throw me a bone! geez!” I was very torn and not sure how I was going to go about getting to New ope for a night of drinkin’ w/ the girls and all that good birthday stuff. But anywhoo, it ended up working out beautifully. Gloria and I jetted over there, caught some drinks, danced/jumped/shook our hair around with the best of them, wondered if any of the cutoff-jean-wearin’, knee-slappin’, honky tonk dancin’ folk in the joint had ever heard of new york city, stuffed our faces w/ pizza, smiled for the camera, held simm’s hair back while she marked her bday official and called it a night! check it out!
family outing!
family was in from cali, so there was definitely call for celebration! We decided to beach it at Jones Beach on Long Island…that was definitely a first for me…a day at the beach with all Eng clan…but it was so much fun! We just ate and ate and ate and swam and ate and played all day. We caught up with folks, took a lotta pics, dodged hoards of jellyfish in the water, watched snails burrow themselves into sand as quickly as they got washed up on shore, watched matt and sam dig a hole until water rushed in from the bottom, attemped to teach david how to say “hakuna matata,” made faces at a poor digital camera for at least 25 minutes and roasted marshmallows on a bbq grill! Check out the official album!
chuck’s bday!
It was chuck’s bday…so that meant that everyone from NYSC, Prada, Benjapol parties and the entire asian-american community that knows anyone from any of these circles was going to be at El Flamingo for a white top party! Chuck is my boy and I definitely wanted to celebrate and congratulate…so here is the crew at El Flamingo…check out the pics:






























































